Ladies, normally this blog is about pick up stories for you to read about and try on your own. I am just so excited about what is going on. Men, (my clients who retain me) have been calling weekly to retain my services. As a very selective matchmaking service, you know I carefully screen both men who I agree to take on and of course, the women who I introduce to my clients. That's the key to my success!

Well ladies, "there is LOVE in the air"  because as I have said in the past, "it's raining men."

What does that mean to you?

If you are from Oklahoma or Texas, I will be traveling with my team next week to find Mr. Hottie a wife. You know the deal, Call my office and find out the details.

Naturally, when I return, there will be a blog or two about my pick up stories that you can read about. Stay tuned at www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com.

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Best,
Janis

Matchmaker goes to Michigan to find a wife. Millionaire hires Matchmaker Spindel and takes applications. Men pay upfront fees starting at $50K. See Fox and Friends morning show video.

Matchmaker on the Move Again
First Class Ticket to Love
 
Once again, as America’s top matchmaker, I was on the move. This time, I was on my way back to New York after spending a sizzling week in Miami interviewing more women for another one of my most eligible Miami bachelors; and of course got another new Miami guy!
 
Unable to coordinate flights, I got to the Miami Airport a few hours early to see my assistant off. As I was waiting for my flight (and splurging on a delicious Cinnabon), Mr. Hotter-Than-Hot caught my eye about 20 ft away. He was 6’3 with movie star good looks – I had to meet him immediately. He sounds perfect for my upscale matchmaking service.
 
I grabbed a last bite before ditching the rest of my cinnabon and headed over.  As I made my move, he started yawning as he looked at his cell phone.
 
“Wow it looks like you’re falling asleep over here”, I say as I causally approach him. “You don’t have a girlfriend to keep you occupied?”
 
“Nope, I’m single”, he replies. Jackpot!
 
Mark is a gorgeous 34 year old, who works in sports medicine, has never been married, but wants to settle down and have a few kids. And I’m just the person (matchmaker) to help him. He was on his way home to Chicago, when his flight was conveniently rerouted from New Jersey …just my luck! Things do happen for a reason!
 
As we continued to chat and exchange business cards, I knew this guy was hooked, wasting no time- I called him Monday morning!
 
Constantly traveling, and of course always in airports, one may  find this to be a  nuisance and quite exhausting…but I can tell you first hand that this is one of the best places to meet men!
 
So pack your bags ladies, and get on board!
Best, Janis Spindel www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

 

Being surrounded by breathtaking views of snow covered mountains and beautiful people! - Who could ask for anything more! My matchmaking service was about to begin!

Last week, I made my way to Aspen, Colorado to find one of Aspen’s wealthiest bachelors a wife!

My trip brought me multiple prospects for my client.  After meeting many beautiful and charming women on my bacholrette search, I certainly had quite a few to pick from.

Our first morning, we ate breakfast at the infamous Poppycocks, my assistant and I sat down next to an incredibly stunning women! (she had to be a model) Although… she was sitting with a man almost twice her age!

Of course as soon as he got up from the table, I moved in - asking her who he was and what their “deal” was?

Blushing and surprised at my blunt approach, she continued to explain that he was just a friend, a friend who was in love with her for years! (Sugar daddy? I said to myself) Melissa was a model in L.A., and a frequent visitor to Aspen, and surprisingly a single mother!  God did she look good for having two kids…

She was a stunning woman to say the least, but not the right one for my guy..NEXT!!

My matchmaking service began with my first night conducting interviews, I met a potential candidate!   Karen was a tall, blonde,Real Estate tycoon.  She was an intelligent single mother of two looking for a stable husband.  I liked this one.  She had the looks, intelligence and charm that would make any man think twice.  Of course with a package deal like this one, I immediately passed her information onto my client!  A future wife perhaps???

But one was not enough! He needed more options…so I continued my week long search.  In and out of stores, restaurants and of course my scheduled interviews, I met droves of women!  Some young, some old, some divorced, some with kids….whatever it may be- these were all great women looking for love… and they came to the right place! 

 In my week long search for the perfect match, I scoured Aspen’s hot spots; dining at  the nicest restaurants, shopping at the best stores and of course being at  the mountain during the height of the season! And let me tell you- I was pleasantly pleased with my findings; from hot ski instructors, bartenders, to your wealthy brokers- I met them all! Aspen was on fire last week (a beautiful 65 degrees to be exact)!

  My assistant and I were on cloud nine with the blizzard of men we were seeing! Everywhere you turned- we were greeted by incredibly handsome men all looking for love! Having to fight them off by the “3's"!! Hey I’m not complaining- it certainly was a breath of fresh air (literally). I was at the right place at the right time! Let the matchmaking begin!

Day 1

Our trip over to Aspen was awful, to say the least; a 6 hour delay at LaGuardia Airport, and a 4 hour, ($600 taxi ride) to Aspen at 4am!!! (But my client WILL be paying for that)
On our first night out, my assistant and I went to one of the trendiest restaurants in town; called Campo…and boy did we luck out! There were men EVERYWHERE!

Delirious from exhaustion, but  we made ourselves comfortable at the bar scoping the scene.yet it  turns out “the scene” was right in front of us!

“So I’m guessing in order to bartend here you have to be good looking?” I asked the bartender.

Interrupted by no other than the hottest Austrian in Aspen!   Ladies, no joke…He stood 6”4, ripped body and had long, dark wavy hair.

He sat right next to us, completely staring us down... which of course we didn’t mind!
 
“Do I know you?” he asked us in his incredible Austrian accent.

“I don’t believe so??…my assistant said casually. (Using that as her “queue” and diving right into the conversation).

“Can you blame her?”  His accent alone would make anyone fall head over heels.

Of course he blushed, moved his chair closer (a little too close) and began to talk about what he does best…skiing! Go figure he was a ski instructor by day, “après ski at night” haha...Not a bad combo!

Having no shame whatsoever (probably from being around me so often), she asked him, “So…does this mean I get a free skiing lesson while I’m here?”

And that was it…she had him!

As she did her “thing,” I kept myself busy with a few more of his friends who strolled in.   They were literally hovering over our chairs all night!

One of my favorites, whom I still keep in contact with, was Eric.  Eric came in dressed to impress, wearing a buttoned down shirt and a sharp blazer. He had that beyond handsome Richard Gere look …wow was I in heaven!

He immediately offered us drinks…we were on an hour and a  half of sleep,so  we’re not exactly drinking, but thought what the heck

I found out that he is a well known figure in town, proving himself to be extremely articulate, funny, and incredibly handsome; although he was divorced with children, and of course looking for love in all the wrong places; that’s what happens when you catch your wife with the mechanic!  Poor guy...

Day 2

Unfortunately, not everyone can be as charming and thoughtful as Eric and Chris...  On our second night, I spotted a strikingly young, handsome man without a wedding band!

He had the looks of a movie star and a smile that could kill... it was clear I needed to know his story.

Since I was wrapped up with interviews, I immediately had my assistant chase after him… We couldn’t let this one go!

“Is this seat taken?” she said in front of a group of older guys. 

“Of course not, please sit down.”

Conversation continued, and of course all eyes were on her. Young attractive, girl complimenting a group of older guys…they were putty in her hands- all 10 of them!

But as the conversation continued, she noticed that the one guy she was chasing after, lets call him “Brian”, had wandering eyes…to almost every woman who walked in!

Discouraged?  Maybe a little at first, but she needed to know more. No wedding band…week vacation with a bunch of guys. And wandering eyes to say the least!!!!

So, of course she asked his friend, Justin what the deal was! (That’s another story. I’ll get to that in minute)

Just what we all thought…42 years old, married, three kids,and  a gorgeous wife!  Being the bold person that I am, I immediately joined his party after my sessions, and got first hand what this Brian character was really all about…long story short, CHEATS- not my kind of guy!

Day 3

Moving on… (Or backwards if you will). Let’s get back to the hero of the story…..Justin.

 Now its not as if I didn’t notice Justin…because I certainly did…I notice everyone!  He was softer spoken than our “Brian the charmer.”  But sometimes, the shy ones are the right ones.  Like Brian, Justin has two kids and was vacationing with “the guys” in Aspen.  But, unlike Brian he was DIVORCED and willing to tell the truth! He is a handsome, successful father of two, visiting Aspen to relax, not prey on young women! And so ripe and ready to meet the right women after being on the dating treadmill for two years!

This was my kind of guy….and guess what lunch is already on the calendar, because he is from New York!

Typical, I went for women and found tons of men!….besides the very handsome Aspenites…  Men from Boston - California - Houston- New York and even Bermuda, it was “SNOWING MEN” from every city…

So as soon as I get home, I run right to the office, check my message pad, and Murphy’s Law- another Aspen guy!!!   He’s a 50 year old divorced man with twins and obviously looking for the perfect wife!....

About face Aspen…here I come, but traveling “private” this time! TOTALLY DONE WITH the "commercial "flying at least to Aspen!

 

Matchmaker Janis Spindel goes on the road again to find a wife in Aspen. Read all about it here.
http://tinyurl.com/janisaspentimes

 

SLAM DUNK

 

It's 11:30am on Febuary 25th , Wednesday morning, and I'm walking on 75th & Madison in gym clothes while doing errands... I was suddenly stopped dead in my tracks by a jolly green giant!

 

Of course, I didn’t let my casual appearance stop me..I approached him immediately!

 

"So what are you 6"5, 6"7?" I asked him.

 

Surprised at my approach, he blushed and responded, "Close, but I'm 6"9!:

 

“And let me guess you never played hoops.”

 

“Actually I played pro in Spain where David Beckham played soccer, when  I was living in Europe .

 

"Is your wife tall," (knowing with my radar- he was single).

 

“I don’t have a wife.” Music to my ears!

 

Now feeling intrigued with the conversation I inquired as to what an incredibly, tall good- looking man does with his life. I gave him my card and he stopped dead in his tracks to read it.

 

“Are you one of those …what do you call them?

 

… a matchmaker?

 

I soon discovered that my very own "Michael Jordan" received his MBA at NYU, and has worked on Wall Street for over twenty years,  and just turned 60!  Many long relationships, but never married. Hmmmm….

 

Ladies if that's not enough for you..I can teach you the same radar I have; single – IVY-educated and rich – happens everytime!

 

Continuing my errands, with his business card in hand.. "I said to myself "Janis, you just got yourself another slam dunk!"

Matchmaking Service Janis Spindel quoted in NY Post Feb. 23, 2009,written by  Dareh Gregorian.

Ladies and Gentlemen...drum rolls please...as promised, I have breaking news.

One of my  former men clients who sued me for his $50,000 fee, admits that his suit was "frivolous" and "a terrible mistake."

He accused me of setting him up with a "stable" of women he had little or nothing in common with.

I counter sued him for defamation, saying the women weren't the problem-he was.

My former  client, Paul, admits publically that his suit was "frivolous and a terrible mistake."

He quotes "You were hard working and relentless" and "one of the nicest people I have ever met."

What this means to you ladies, is the flood gates will open as men will call  to my matchmaking service with full confidence, knowing that I am THE BEST.

Men, that's right...you guessed it. Ladies will flock to me as they know that it will now be raining men and I just might have your wife in my matchmaking service.

Call my office at 212 987 1582.

Best, Janis
www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com

Matchmaker and Mr. Fix- It
Location: Home Depot (59th & Lex) January 2009.

For those of you who have moved homes can understand how tedious and exhausting the moving process can be to, to say the least …

On my way to Home Depot (59th and Lex) for the fourth time that day- you can imagine the enthusiasm I was feeling, but that was all soon to change.

My professional matchmaking skills were going to be kicked in high gear once again.

Walking from aisle to aisle looking at the hundreds of different shades of blue paint, I suddenly lost my train of thought as I encountered a different and more enticing shade of blue.

Standing about six foot two, a dark haired gentleman peered over the paintbrushes with his crystal blue eyes.  He was stunning to say the least; I just had to speak with him.

“Excuse me”, I said, “You are just so good looking, and I can’t stop staring at you.”  Of course, he blushed as most men would, but continued to speak with me, (even though he wore a wedding band).

Was I disappointed? Of course, why wouldn’t I be?  But that didn’t stop me.  Michael was a charming thirty-year old lawyer who had much more to offer.

Being the matchmaker that I am, my relentless attitude discovered that the majority of his closest friends were single men working on Wall Street.

Bingo! This couldn’t be better. Immediately, I handed over my card, shocked him that he was picked up by a " matchmaker " and to send all those young hottie friends of his my way,then boring as it was I continued shopping.... for paint that is.

Over the years, I’ve given numerous dating tips for men and women on how to approach the opposite sex.  My online dating tips have helped many discover true love.

But most importantly, I’ve learned that everybody knows someone who is single, and if you talk to everyone (single and married) wherever you go, like I do, you just never know whom you will meet --- or where you will meet them! 

Whether it is in a classy upscale restaurant or a  home improvement store, my dating tips focus on a keen eye and a clever approach. REMEMBER always be playful and add humor to it. TRUST me it works.

So, maybe start thinking about a little home makeover, YOU NEVER KNOW --you may just find your Mr. Fix It!

Be sure to check out my other blog for more stories and for quick updates check out http://janisspindelmatchmaker.blogspot.com

               The Deli Counter
           Location: Whole Foods, Columbus Circle- NY, NY
              
                              September 24, 2008

I was at Whole Foods yesterday schlepping around for groceries after my breakfast with a very handsome, upscale, single potential client, Gary* (a big shot in the sports scene). After dumping my organic raspberries into my green plastic bin, I headed to my last stop: the deli counter.

Waiting in line for my cheese and turkey, I overheard the rather tall man in front of me ordering his lunch meats.

I thought that I was specific with my order of slender low- fat white-American organic Horizon cheese, but apparently others are particular as well.

The man instructed the Mexican guy, Ernesto, behind the counter, “Make sure the turkey is sliced very thin. VERY THIN.” He enunciated the words tactfully and slowly. His fear of the little guy missing the word turkey and grabbing the Sara Lee extra juicy ham by accident was exceptionally apparent.

Finding this very funny, being the New York matchmaker  that I am, I switched my bin to the other hand and peered around to look at Mr. slim turkey. Woh. Big Brown eyes under a brown curly head of hair, chiseled chin. I looked down. Nope, no ring, which means he fits the profile for my matchmaking services.

 As he questioned Ernesto again, “that’s turkey, right?’" (boy am I smart) I made my entrance.

“My god, men are brutal,” I exclaimed. “Not only do you want her thin but you want your turkey thin too?!” Sounds like stories I wrote as Americas top matchmaker.

He turned around and laughed. Why? Because he knows I’m right. Men have an allergy to fat. It doesn’t matter if its turkey or a woman.

“I like my turkey a certain way, what can I say,” he bantered.

Ernesto handed him the slim white packet and he put it in his matching green bin.

As Mr. Lean walked away, he yelled over his shoulder, “Have a great day!”

“You too,” I said, watching him walk towards the front of the store. Business card, I thought to myself! Oops, too late. I hate to admit it, but even I make mistakes too.

I headed up to Ernesto to order my organic American cheese. As he handed me the Horizon package, he said, “You want anything else?”

“Yes, turkey,” I said with a smile. “Sliced very thin.”

            The bachelor of the week blog is meant to be a short, sweet, and informative blog based COMPLETELY on my experiences as America's top  upscale matchmaker.  Where ever I go, no matter what I’m doing or where I am, I’m working--- so in thoughts, you are with me!  One of my fortes is picking up 100 men, on a "good day!"  This blog will just show you how easy it is.  
            On a side note: there is no science to picking up men. Where you meet them and what you say depends on the situation. The one thing you can do is to ALWAYS have on your "hello challenge” attitude. (To find out exactly what the hello challenge attitude is and how YOU can acquire it, consult my first book, Get Serious About Getting Married  (A NY Times best seller, of COURSE 
            But remember, if you are not ALWAYS looking you will never find HIM!
    And of course, let those pearly whites shine. Every one wants to be around the girl who is smiling.  As I always say, “your smile is your calling card.”